太能算计者，快乐与他绝缘

       第一，一个太能算计的人，通常也是一个事事计较的人。无论他表面上多么大方，他的内心深处都不会坦然。算计本身首先已经使人失掉了平静，掉在一事一物的纠缠里。而一个经常失去平静的人，一般都会引起较严重的焦虑症。一个常处在焦虑状态中的人，不但谈不上快乐，甚至是痛苦的。

　　第二，爱算计的人在生活中，很难得到平衡和满足，反而会由于过多的算计引起对人对事的不满和愤恨，常与别人闹意见，分歧不断，内心充满了冲突。

　　第三，爱算计的人，心胸常被堵塞，每天只能生活在具体的事物中不能自拔，习惯看眼前而不顾长远。更严重的是，世上千千万万事，爱算计者并不是只对某一件事情算计，而是对所有事都习惯于算计。太多的算计埋在心里，如此积累便是忧患。忧患中的人怎么会有好日子过？

　　第四，太能算计的人，也是太想得到的人。而太想得到的人，很难轻松地生活。

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A Star

To be a star,

you must shine your own light,

 follow your own path, 

and don't worry about all the darkness,

 for that is when the stars shine brightest.

Take Control in the Supermarket

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Take control in the supermarket will help you save a lot of money. Therefore, I would like to share the alternative ways to cut anyone's expenses from Reader 's Digest and I found it's really working! :D

Here's how to leave the shop with the things you went in for and nothing more:

Pick up a basket

You will head straight for the checkout when it starts to get heavy. Avoid the trolleys because they encourage you to chuck in extras.

Make a list and stick to it

Shops deliberately place staples such as bread and milk a long way apart so you have to wander the aisles in between, buying stuff you don't really need on the way.

Beware BOGOFs (Buy One Get One Free offers)

Just how many watermelons can you eat in a week? Loose fruit and vegetables usually work out cheaper.

Just take cash

Carrying credit cards leads to budget-breaking impulse buys like chocolate.

Look up and down

The most profitable brands are placed at eye level. For bargains, check the top and bottom shelves.

Happy Saving~ :)

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus

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Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.

That why Men and Women think differently.

Do you agree?

I have been reading this book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" written by John Gray who is a bestselling author, lecturer and relationships counsellor whose books have sold many millions of copies worldwide. "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"  is actually really good and he makes some really interesting point and share his own experience.

The Martian and Venusian languages had the same words, but the way they were used gave different meanings.

He goes through 13 topics and the most interesting i found in chapter 5 is "Ten common complaints that are easily misinterpreted".

One of the complaints that are easily misinterpreted is Women say things like this: "We never go out", Men respond like this: "that's not true. We went out last week.

"We never go out' translated into Martian means "I feel like going out and doing something together. We always have such a fun time, and I love being with you. Without this translation, a man may hear "You are not doing your job. What a disappoint-ment you have turned out to be. ( P/s: What you thinking? It's that true? It just so true! :p)

Man should have this "Language Dictionary" because man will begins to understand the way women think and feel. Perhaps women should have one too to know your partner better! :)